Understanding Vaginal Examinations

When it comes to labour and birth, many expectant parents are informed about the various examinations and procedures that might be offered. One such examination is the vaginal examination. This is an intimate examination where the midwife requires your consent to use their gloved fingers to examine your cervix, inside your vagina. While it can (in some circumstances) provide valuable information about the progress of labour, it's crucial to remember that vaginal examinations are not for everyone. The decision to go ahead with this examination should be based on informed choice, understanding, and support from a midwife.

Your Right to Informed Choice

Informed choice is a fundamental right during your care. This means that you should receive comprehensive information about the benefits and risks of vaginal examinations, as well as any alternative options. Only then can you make a decision that aligns with your personal preferences and values. With a trusted private midwife by your side, you can have in-depth discussions to ensure you are adequately informed and supported, helping you make choices that are best for you and your baby.

Support from a Private Midwife

Having an expert private midwife can make a significant difference when navigating the various decisions during labour and birth. They provide personalised care, respect your individual needs, and ensure you have the necessary information to make informed choices. A private midwife will support you in understanding all aspects of vaginal examinations and will be there to guide you through your options with empathy and professionalism.

As a parent-to-be, it's essential to know that you have control over what happens during your labour and birth. Vaginal examinations should never feel obligatory or coerced. Instead, they should be offered as an option, with the understanding that it's entirely your choice whether to accept or decline.

Alternatives to Vaginal Examinations

There are alternative methods to monitor the progress of labour that may feel more comfortable for some individuals. For instance, observing the frequency and intensity of your contractions or surges, changes in your behaviour, and physical signs such as the 'purple line' are some alternative ways to assess labour. Discussing these alternatives with a knowledgeable private midwife can help you find an approach that aligns with your comfort and preferences.

In summary, the decision to have a vaginal examination during labour should be based on informed choice and support from a midwife. Remember, it's your body, your labour, and your decision. Being empowered with information and having supportive care ensures that your childbirth experience is as positive and personalised as possible.